Ask for help? Who me?No one can do the things I do, as well as I can...... Can they? I'm
supposed to be able to handle my household, taking care of
every one's needs, and I can do this better than anyone else. Right?
No one can help my son's with their homework like I do. No one can fix my daughter's hair or dress her as cute as I can. No one can clean the bathrooms to a germ free shine like I do.
Often times it is easier to grumble about all of the things we have to do, than to ask for help, or to teach our young ones how to complete household chores. I've used excuses about if my children try to do a chore it won't be done perfectly. If I do not teach them simple household chores how are they going to learn them? If I don't allow them to own a chore how are they to master it? I can live with a slightly unswept floor. Can't I?
God call us to delegate. Moses, a great leader, had to delegate as well. He could not handle all of the needs of the
Israelites on his own. He had to train others to help him.
If we delegated jobs, yes give them away, we'd get more done in our days. We also might even show up places promptly instead of rushing in,
frazzled, a few minutes late. We'd also be teaching our young ones responsibility, and they will grow! God wants us to grow our young ones!
Dear God,
I thank you for Your Word which shows us that Your leaders relied on You, yet also needed the help of others as well, for the load you called them to carry. Sharing our loads make them lighter, more manageable while also teaching others skills they will need for the life of purpose You have planned. May I wisely delegate my household duties, teaching my children valuable lessons in good stewardship in the care of our home, which You have blessed us with.
In Jesus Name,
Amen.
Exodus 18: 17-18, 20-21
"Moses father-in-law replied, 'What you are doing is not good. You and these people who come to you will only wear yourselves out. The work is too heavy for you; you cannot handle it alone.'"
"Teach them the decrees and laws, and show them the
way to live and the duties they are to perform. But select capable men from all the people-men who fear God, trustworthy men who hate dishonest gain-".......